Distracted wrote:And some concepts should wait until maturity before they're introduced into impressionable minds.
I would agree with that, but there's also something to be said for the claim that blocking certain materials from a household breeds a child who isn't going to have any interest or any thirst for ideas other than that which they're brought up with - namely, that they'll be closedminded. I understand not wanting to expose a rebellious 12 year old to nihilism because they just want an ideology to latch onto, but if they're raised through to adulthood under the rule that anything contrary is incorrect, they're going to develop the general attitude towards life that
everything contrary is incorrect, and get locked into a dogmatic belief system, to the threat of becoming intolerant - and really I'm speaking towards all behavior and ideas, not specifically religious beliefs.
The other thing is that people are going to have all kinds of ideas about when that period of impressionabillity is, and when it stops.
Alelou wrote:Some studies have actually shown that religion tends to wax and wane across the generations of any given family: parents with dogmatic beliefs tend to have children who are less so, and vice versa.
I agree that that's an element in the equation because of what I've seen in my own family. At least, this is true of the modern age. Back in the day one presumes that parents preaching to children just meant the children followed that... at least for the most part.
My grandparents were strong catholics, and my mom was, at least until she got older and, in my opinion, just became a little less dogmatic about it as a result of being an educated woman in a technological society. Certain beliefs just don't survive bold-faced contradiction.
On the other hand, my sister, contrary to my mom's position, has become an absolutely far right evangelical Christian. To the point that I think she's a friggin nutcase, to be honest. But she's not really Catholic anymore, she goes to all ND Christian services and sometimes Pentecostal services.
My dad's parents were somewhat religious - they went to church on Sunday (Baptists, not Catholics) - and my dad was in the choir for many years and I
hear that he was a youth minister in his 30's but this idea just baffles my mind. I would describe him as a "spiritual" person but not a church-goer. Apparently now, though, that he's raising my oldest sister's two kids, MY sister (the evangelical) has convinced them they need to start going back to church again so apparently they go twice a week. I think it's good for little kids. Regardless of my opinion of the beliefs, I think it's important for kids to be given a moral structure early on, and it's tough to say there's any better vehicle for that than religion.