justTripn wrote:TPoptarts wrote:Whine: there's this guy who lives here. He freaks me out. He's ALWAYS where I am. I go to the kitchen, he comes to the kitchen. I go outside, he's outside. And he always tries to talk to me and stuff. And like he only speaks Spanish, hardly any English at all so I don't even know what I'm supposed to say to him. But he's creepy and he acts weird, I don't know if it's like a cultural thing or just a "guy wants girl" thing, but like every time he sees me he has to say hi to get me to say hi back to him, and like how many times a day can you say hi to the same person, I mean really like I said he's always where I am so it happens like every MINUTE, literally when he sees me in the hallway, in the kitchen, in the restroom all the frelling time, when I enter the kitchen to grab something from the fridge and then when I EXIT the kitchen after having grabbed something from the fridge, like seriously WTF, and he always has this flirtatious/sleazy tone in his voice and I hate it. Gross.
There's another guy who once a long time ago cooked too much food and then asked me if I wanted the leftovers when I went to the kitchen to make a sandwich and so I took it because I was starving, and like obviously he stayed there and talked to me while I was eating. And ever since then he's been acting like I'm his girlfriend, brought his PARENTS to meet me and he keeps greeting me like "hi beautiful" or "hi sweetie" or whatever every time he sees me, and also he likes to touch me like every time he walks past me in the hallway or something he has to grab and squeeze my arm or put his hand on the small of my back or stupid dren like that, and I frelling hate being touched and I frelling hate him.
And like also every time he says hi to me and I say hi back out of politeness then he has to go like "good morning" in a tone that's obviously trying to force me into replying again, then I just roll my eyes and say nothing because I frelling hate it when people treat me like a 2 year old and try to force conversation on me. I greeted you already. I know you heard me. Don't frelling push it. And he just doesn't get it, I mean like he sees me walk away and raises his voice "I said good morning", yeah I heard you the first time. I just don't appreciate being treated that way. "And what do we say when someone gives us a candy?" "THANK YOU AUNT SALLY!" Uh nope. Get lost. I already learned my manners. I just don't like to waste it on someone who doesn't appreciate it AND interprets it the wrong way.
There's so many tralks here. So many chicks who actually LOOK for "having fun" in terms of "having sex with random strangers". So WHY do these guys have to go to the ice queen?? And treat the ICE QUEEN like one of them tralks who's supposed to actually be interested in that kinda stuff?? I don't flirt. I don't play "hard to get". I don't raise people's expectations and crash them "playfully" or whatever kinda repulsive dren like that. What exactly about me says "looking for a shallow relationship, preferably one-sided since I obviously reject every attempt"??
And like then they get all like "what's with HER??" when I roll my eyes at them and don't react the way they expect me to. Well they're being repulsive. How exactly am I SUPPOSED to react. They act like they're big fat hotshots, expecting everyone to just roll with it, expecting me to see their interest as a compliment. They don't expect to get turned down. Which proves just how much they don't know me, and how much they don't even care to, especially when they take it as "keep trying".
I hate it.
I am way behinds the times, responding to this post, but it is perfectly OK to tell someone, don't ever touch me, period. Doesn't matter if his motives are Good, Bad, or In Between. He must respect your wishes.
He doesn't just have to accept your WISHES, he can accept your taser instead: http://www.amazon.com/Air-Taser-Blk-Las ... 529&sr=8-1
Okay now who's getting me the taser for Christmas?? 
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