I haven't read the books yet, but I probably will eventually.
I never did vampire stuff either, until I got into
Forever Knight, and that almost wasn't even until the show was canceled. I'm not much of a horror movie person, so I tend to avoid things with gore, but
Forever Knight was tame on the gore factor so it was all good. Eventually I gave
Buffy a chance, too.
The thing about falling in love with vampires and the whole vampire sexuality vs. bloodsucking thing...we actually had a discussion about this at A Larger World once. We know that historically these types of things were a metaphor for a sex scene, because when stories like
Dracula were originally written, you just didn't write about sex.
Flipping that around, though, if vampires were real, the drinking of blood
is the process of reproduction (that is, unless you're just dinner!), just as sex is the process of reproduction for humans. I know different writers do it differently, but the most common way I've seen to make more vampires on TV and in movies is for the vampire to drink your blood, and then to feed you theirs...it is the very body fluid exchange that leads to an addition to the vampire population, so to me it kind of makes sense that there's a perceived sensuality both on the part of the writers and the readers/viewers.
That, and in the last few decades we've been introduced to the "good" vampire...the one who isn't so bad because he's searching for his humanity, or he's just fascinated by humanity, or whatever, so he's not so threatening. The Kinder-Gentler, Warmer-Fuzzier Bloodsucker.
