First, I want to apologize publicly to Linda for any impression I may have given that she is the reason I asked that we not discuss who was being mean to whom any more. I just highlighted that portion of her post so it would be clear what part of it I was responding to, and to point out that Eian was not the originator of the phrase in question, NOT to say that she did anything wrong. It seems that in my efforts to be more clear, I actually accomplished the opposite.

Second, I want to be very clear that I'm not taking any kind of admin-y action here. Nothing specifically against the rules happened, so there's nothing TO do. I am an admin, yes, but that does not mean I have to recuse myself from participation in the discussions. That is why, in my last post, I spoke as a "private citizen" first, because I participate here more actively than most of the other admins, if not all of them, so yes, sometimes what goes on here affects me as a fellow poster, but not as an admin. My initial remarks in that post fall under that umbrella.
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Sometimes as I'm participating, the admin-y part of me looks at something and says "Okay you know what? This could get really awkward (or ugly) if it goes much further. Might be a good idea to ask everyone to stop that particular aspect of things..." Hence the second part of my post, as Aquarius the admin, asking that everyone, myself included, redirect that aspect of the discussion. And I furthermore asked that any offensive posts be reported to an admin rather than be dealt with publicly because A) it has to stop somewhere, and B) I wanted everyone to know that yes, they have recourse if someone is bothering them, that I'm not trying to shut anyone down; I just wanted complaints redirected through proper channels because I thought that would be better for the discussion in question in the long run. Perhaps this confused some because I responded as a fellow poster all through the discussion up to that point, but I promise you, if I was power-tripping, I would've said my piece and locked the thread, guaranteeing myself the last word. Rather, the thread has remained open for anyone who wants to discuss the topic and related issues, and I encourage you to do so.
Hope that clears things up. If not, I welcome your questions in my PM box. It was with mixed feelings that I further interrupted this discussion with this explanation, but first and foremost I felt Linda deserved a public apology since a misunderstanding occurred because of my public remark. I couldn't allow that misunderstanding to be perpetuated. It seemed only right and fair, and I say that both as a fellow poster and as an admin. I posted the rest of this as an extension of that, in the hopes that if everyone understands where I'm coming from. it'll prevent future misunderstanding. There are no hard feelings on my end, and I hope there aren't any on anyone else's.
So with that, I return you to your regularly scheduled thread.