Alelou wrote:I would try not to take it personally if someone doesn't review your work. Just because it's not to their taste doesn't mean it's not good. It's just not to their taste. Or their real life is busy enough that they're only reading the stuff they can't resist. It happens.
That could be resounding right, but ALWAYS there's something enjoyable in a story. Maybe you don't love the story itself, or the way the writer perceives the characters, or whatever else you want, but, frankly, (and honestly I challenge whichever to deny this truth) when you didn't get - ever - anything from someone, it's difficult to think that means only a lack of time, more or less, specially if you see what sort of enthusiastic comments this someone is in habit to put in other stories, always. This sort of behaviour resounds as personal, in my perception, and, even if this is absolutely wrong, it could push (after that this behaviour is reiterated many times) to do Tit For Tat.
But please, take all this simply as a consequence of my stupid Italian way to be: we are individualist, always ready to "have flies on our noses", like we use to say here, and VERY fussy.
Anyway, I restate: it's obvious that each writer writes for himself, but it's equally obvious that each writer likes that people put in his stories their comments.
Sure, time is tyrant, and not always it allows us to cast a glance at what there's on the site as for new stories (for example, it will be needed a lot of time, for me, in order to read the new stories which are up now, but I will try to do it, and I regret if sometimes I wasn't able to do it), but I think it's a manner to show respect and comprehension in regard to those persons who share our same passion.
And I agree:
Dinah is the best. She doesn't display absence of criticisms, but she is capable of underlining what there's in a story which doesn't ring right and, at the same time, what there's in this story which is enjoyable, and all this with a gentle balance.
But you know: the more a writer is great, the more this writer is a good reader.
And I don't think anyone has anything to say against this personal statement from me, above all if this statement concerns
Dinah.
